240: When You're in Conflict - How to Find Optimal Outcomes - with Jennifer Goldman-Wetzler

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When you’re stuck in conflict, how do you step outside of the situation enough to identify ways to break the patterns that are keeping you stuck? Especially in ongoing conflict, just doing more of the same isn’t going to change your outcome. Our guest is Jennifer Goldman-Wetzler, author of</span> <em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Optimal Outcomes: Free Yourself from Conflict at Work, at Home, and in Life</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;">. We’ll talk about practical, effective strategies you can use to escape the conflict loop - and, thus, get different results!</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And as always, I’m looking forward to your thoughts on this episode and what revelations and questions it creates for you. Please join us in the</span> <a href= "https://www.facebook.com/groups/RelationshipAliveCommunity/"><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Relationship Alive Community on Facebook</span></a> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">to chat about it!</span></p> <p><strong>Sponsors:</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Find a quality therapist, online, to support you and work on the places where you’re stuck. For</span> <strong>10% off your first month</strong><span style= "font-weight: 400;">, visit</span> <a href= "https://www.betterhelp.com/ALIVE"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Betterhelp.com/ALIVE</span></a> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">to fill out the quick questionnaire and get paired with a therapist who’s right for you.</span></p> <p><strong>Resources:</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Check out</span> <a href= "https://jengoldmanwetzler.com/the-book/"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Jen Goldman-Wetzler’s website</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, where you can take the assessments we talk about in today’s conversation.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Grab Jen Goldman-Wetzler’s book</span> <a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Optimal-Outcomes-Free-Yourself-Conflict-ebook/dp/B07S6NMDDR"> <span style="fo