231. Start Finishing: Charlie Gilkey

<p>Sometimes people tell me, “Hey David, <a href= "http://geni.us/fgs1"><em>The Heart to Start</em></a> is a great book, but now that I’ve figured out how to start, how do I finish?!”</p> <p>If you’re anything like me, finishing is tough. You can always find a good reason not to finish what you’ve started. It’s not fun anymore, you don’t want to paint yourself into a corner if it goes well, or – my personal favorite – now you have an even <em>better</em> idea! (which you soon abandon, like the thousand projects before it.)</p> <p>Our guest today can help you stop floundering, and start finishing. In fact, he’s the author of a book called <a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Start-Finishing-How-Idea-Done-ebook/dp/B07SL9YNGD?tag=kadavynet0d-20"> <em>Start Finishing: How to Go from Idea to Done</em></a>. He’s got all of the discipline of an Army officer, and all of the wisdom of a philosophy professor – he’s even been both of those things. He’s Charlie Gilkey (<a href= "https://twitter.com/CharlieGilkey">@CharlieGilkey</a>). Whether you’re flip-flopping, floundering, or fluttering about from project to project like a butterfly in a botanical garden, Charlie can help you start finishing with his book, or start flourishing, with his podcast, <a href= "https://www.productiveflourishing.com/podcast/">Productive Flourishing</a>.</p> <p>Today, we’ll talk about:</p> <ul> <li>Charlie says, “be courageous enough to commit more fully to fewer projects.” For lots of us, that’s easier said than done. Hear Charlie psychoanalyze me out of my own straitjacket.</li> <li>Finishing a big project changes who we are. How can you push past your comfort zone just when you’re about to make a transformation?</li> <li>You’ve heard of “fear of success.” I’ve always had trouble believing in it. But Charlie cleared it all up. Hear the four stories we tell ourselves that hold us back from success.</li> </ul> <p>P.S. Charlie is the last guest for <em>awhile</em>. Because I’m dedicating every ounce of creative energy to my upcoming book, <em>Mind Man