227. Paying Attention in a Distracted World (with Paul Angone)

<p><span>I am so excited to welcome Paul Angone back to the show, who was first on back in </span><a href="https://crystalpaine.com/127-living-out-your-calling-instead-of-being-limited-by-lies-with-paul-angone/" rel="nofollow">episode 127</a><span>! Paul joins me today to talk about his book </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Listen-Your-Day-Life-Changing-Attention/dp/1540900711/ref=sr_1_1?crid=YYN46FEHTENT&keywords=paul+angone+listen+to+your+day&qid=1694299076&s=books&sprefix=paul+angone+listen+to+your+day%2Cstripbooks%2C102&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow"><em>Listen to Your Day</em></a><span>, delving into the concept of paying attention in the digital age and sharing how he’s transformed and improved his own relationship with his phone.</span></p><p><span>We discuss the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships with loved ones and strangers in a digital world full of distractions, highlighting how parents are often juggling the demands of family and work. We touch upon the growing concern around the relationship between children and social media, and we talk about the importance of being present and attentive to loved ones. Paul also shares some practical tips for doing so, such as asking meaningful questions, starting the day with intention, and making eye contact with people rather than constantly looking down at our phones.</span></p><p><span>Paul encourages us to build deeper connections with people, not just with loved ones but with strangers that we come across in the grocery store as well, and he suggests starting the day off with a simple question: “What do I want to focus on today?” This, he argues, can really help set the tone for a more intentional approach to life.</span></p><p><span>This was such a wonderful conversation, and I strongly encourage you to read Paul’s book titled </span><em>Listen to Your Day</em><span>! I love it so much that I have had to limit how many pages I read each day so that I don’t tear through it too quickly! Between listening to this captivating conversation with him an