195. Visibility, Vulnerability, Attention, and Being Seen

<p dir="ltr">How often have you immediately blurted out “You too!” when somebody compliments you?</p> <p dir="ltr">“You have such pretty hair!” “You too!”</p> <p dir="ltr">“You’re so smart!” “You too!”</p> <p dir="ltr">“You’re so beautiful.” “You too!”</p> <p dir="ltr">It’s like we can’t stand to just sit and HOLD attention when it’s given to us…we have to throw it back as fast as we can. Why?</p> <p dir="ltr">Because we’ve trained ourselves to be uncomfortable holding it.</p> <p dir="ltr">Because we don’t think of ourselves as “attention-seekers.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Here’s the thing: attention-seeking is not the same as receiving attention. And until we learn that lesson, we’re never going to be comfortable holding attention from others…and we’re never going to be able to have the supportive relationship we dream about where we are known, loved, and seen for exactly who we are.</p> <p dir="ltr">Let’s talk about VISIBILITY, VULNERABILITY, ATTENTION, and BEING SEEN…without feeling the need to get everyone’s eyes off of us as fast as possible.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">WORK WITH BEATRICE:</p> <p dir="ltr">Join Magnetic Woman, a five-week group program on how to ELEVATE and UPGRADE your dating life through getting CLEAR, SOLID, and GROUNDED in your standards and deal breakers for a relationship: <a href= "https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/magnetic-woman/">https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/magnetic-woman/</a> </p> <p dir="ltr">Join the Hold the Standard FREE masterclass:<a href= "https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/0d0ecdf365">https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/0d0ecdf365</a></p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:</p> <p dir="ltr">Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix/">@theselflovefix</a>. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.</p> <p dir="ltr">Head over to <a href="https://beatricekamau.com/">my website</a> to learn more about how we can work together to shift your energy &