194. "Are My Standards TOO High?" - A Much-Needed Conversation on Standards

<p dir="ltr">Last week, we had a chat about what it looks like when your standards are actually conditions, and you’re too wishy-washy about standing firm in the standards you’ve set…</p> <p dir="ltr">This week, I want to talk about what happens when you’re TOO strict with your standard-setting, and it actually ends up narrowing your dating pool unnecessarily.</p> <p dir="ltr">I’ve heard a lot of people asking whether their standards are “too high,” and honestly? I don’t believe this is even a thing. Standards aren’t high or low; they just are. They’re something that you’ve decided to set and stand behind…</p> <p dir="ltr">But sometimes, we set them in places that aren’t actually aligned with what we’re truly seeking in a relationship.</p> <p dir="ltr">Let’s talk about what happens when you set standards from a place of entitlement or outside pressure rather than what will ACTUALLY make you feel safe and secure in a relationship. Because I’m betting that your ego has started an unconscious game of peek-a-boo within your standards…and it’s actually starting to sabotage your dating life.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">WORK WITH BEATRICE:</p> <p dir="ltr">Join Magnetic Woman, a five-week group program on how to ELEVATE and UPGRADE your dating life through getting CLEAR, SOLID, and GROUNDED in your standards and deal breakers for a relationship: <a href= "https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/magnetic-woman/">https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/magnetic-woman/</a> </p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:</p> <p dir="ltr">Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix/">@theselflovefix</a>. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.</p> <p dir="ltr">Head over to <a href="https://beatricekamau.com/">my website</a> to learn more about how we can work together to shift your energy & transform your life.</p> <p dir="ltr">Sign up for Indulgent and Balanced™, a guilty-pleasure, FREE monthly newsl