190 – How to use the tools in Parenting Beyond Power

<div class="ql-block" data-block-id="block-b0a7d338-a832-4423-94fd-cec7740f2693"> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id="block-16375abf-5cbc-485a-a70d-9f8e10be00e6"></div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id="block-94dc146f-f13f-4e8f-a206-4846e27aa4f6"></div> One of the questions I'm asked most often about <a class="ql-link" href="https://www.yourparentingmojo.com/book" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Parenting Beyond Power</a> (preorder bonuses are available for just a few more days!) is: </div> <div data-block-id="block-b59fdc4a-4f09-4462-9bc5-b8646bc535ae"> <div data-block-id="block-7ef9eb92-dfbd-41ce-994e-05fb8cd1bb97"> <div data-block-id="block-7ef9eb92-dfbd-41ce-994e-05fb8cd1bb97"> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id="block-0877d20b-0d07-4cc4-8884-348f8a6fcebd"> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id="block-0eb52fa8-8590-4de1-ac3a-80ca5dbb7a59"> <div data-block-id="block-94dc146f-f13f-4e8f-a206-4846e27aa4f6"> So when a group of listeners volunteered to get together to discuss what they got out of the book, that was the first thing I wanted to ask them. </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id="block-5aa3ed5b-e538-41db-8f4a-eff95373a7ff"> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id="block-16375abf-5cbc-485a-a70d-9f8e10be00e6"></div> <div data-block-id="block-94dc146f-f13f-4e8f-a206-4846e27aa4f6"> &nbsp; </div> </div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id="block-a2d1347b-4f7b-40a5-bfaf-cc38b012895b">The core premise of the book is that the social forces of White supremacy, patriarchy, and capitalism have really hurt us - they're the biggest reason why we feel so much pain and shame. And we will pass on those hurts to our own children unless we do something different - and most of the book is about what we actually do differently to make parenting easier today, and work toward creating a world where everyone belongs.</div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id="block-05322ce9-9f14-4bfe-9f8b-b80a5c6e91ab"> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id="block-16375abf-5cbc-485a-a70d-9f8e