164. Scarce or Spoiled? When Scarcity Mindset Becomes Entitlement

<div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-5b68ea1d-289d-40bb-8ae7-a548a9cdcb1c">Let's talk entitlement and scarcity...and how the two actually go together.</div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-17f6df92-eca8-4490-9e40-f1e7b68fa539"> </div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-4142b9fa-114b-43ba-b75a-cdf325efe0ed">Entitlement says, "I deserve a relationship, because I am a wonderful person. I am a catch. I'm amazing." Scarcity says, "I can't have what I want (or deserve) because there isn't enough to go around, so I'm going to turn whatever I have into the thing that I feel I deserve."</div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-1372573b-3483-4398-9176-a1b3585cbeed"> </div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-e251561f-69bf-4d66-bcf7-fd31087a2986">When both of these mindsets show up to a party together, only trouble can come out of it, right? No matter what you might think, these attitudes aren't going to get you the relationship you're looking for. You know why?</div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-8564dda1-e504-4a09-b2a8-ace8d0a15000"> </div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-c102730c-d1ab-4867-ba1d-4aaf43db1768">The universe doesn't owe you a relationship just because you're a nice or fun or cool person. You can't just show up and expect it to fall into your lap. You have to do the work...and there <em>is</em> work to do. There <em>is</em> a way to get what you want. But you have to learn how to get rid of that entitlement mindset first.</div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-b5103daa-b273-4e00-9f58-3142c6c9e038"> </div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-4e319c3e-9dd0-4f5e-a7eb-c2dcbe595b1d"> </div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-4e319c3e-9dd0-4f5e-a7eb-c2dcbe595b1d">CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:</div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-55f71a15-e95b-4e3e-b08f-0502ea1a669e"> </div> <div class="ql-block" data-block-id= "block-37763970-65d9-4219-8ffb-e92bd9badd9b">Instagram: <a class= "ql-link" href="http://www.instagram.