16. Why we seek validation from others

<p>(4:28) I asked myself the tough question? Am I really wanting feedback or do I want someone to agree with me?</p> <p>(5:45) Honest feedback or validation? Do we REALLY want to know the truth?</p> <p>(7:52) When my mentor let me in on a big, but TRUE, secret...we don't really want to know. </p> <p>(9:12) My latest opportunity to ask myself, "what's really going on?"</p> <p>(11:20) Kids make this so obvious, but adults do it, too. </p> <p>(12:22) Where your intuition comes from...the only & only God.</p> <p>(14:00) How we get to decide that we can be comfortable with no validation, or even silence.</p> <p>(15:40) Your journey is yours & perfectly unique.</p> <p>(18:13) One of my biggest tests. </p> <p>(19:20) How do I go from insecure to not needing validation?</p> <p>Journal prompts:</p> <p>1. Where are you seeking external validation & approval?</p> <p>2. What's really going on here?</p> <p>3. What would it look like if I didn't need validation from anyone or anything?</p> <p>LOVE this work?? Me, too! Let's dig in together...</p> <p>Head over to brookekanitz.com to grab your spot on the waiting list for your transformation in the Step Into Confidence group starting in January!</p> <p>Let's be social! Tag me in your biggest AHA moment...</p> <p><span role="gridcell"><a class= "oajrlxb2 g5ia77u1 qu0x051f esr5mh6w e9989ue4 r7d6kgcz rq0escxv nhd2j8a9 nc684nl6 p7hjln8o kvgmc6g5 cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x jb3vyjys rz4wbd8a qt6c0cv9 a8nywdso i1ao9s8h oo483o9r f1sip0of lzcic4wl ljqsnud1 gpro0wi8" tabindex="0" role="link" href="https://facebook.com/brooke.kanitz" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">facebook.com/brooke.kanitz</a></span></p> <p><span role="gridcell"><a class= "oajrlxb2 g5ia77u1 qu0x051f esr5mh6w e9989ue4 r7d6kgcz rq0escxv nhd2j8a9 nc684nl6 p7hjln8o kvgmc6g5 cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x jb3vyjys rz4wbd8a qt6c0cv9 a8nywdso i1ao9s8h oo483o9r f1sip0of lzcic4wl ljqsnud1 gpro0wi8" tabindex="0" role="link" href= "http://instagram.com/brookekanitz/?fbclid=IwAR3cZG99ebhTSZxcl1dgNkuIXio1qNOu_PJrlYfFfLApfNnA-g4k9SNFJ0c"