135: Client Spotlight: Jill, the straight-shooting, telling it like it is Enneagram 1

When I met this beautiful woman, I was drawn to her immediately.⁣<br />⁣<br />At the time I didn’t know why, and honestly in the past I wouldn’t have liked her very much.⁣<br />⁣<br />⁣<br />Listen now⁣<br />⁣<br />⁣<br />She’s a straight-shooting, no bullshit, tells-it-like-it-is, very polarizing type of person.⁣<br />⁣<br />The old me would’ve been intimidated by that. But my healthy self respects the shit out of her.⁣<br />⁣<br />All the influencers and Bali butterflies out there can leave you wondering: Is anyone even real anymore?⁣<br />⁣<br />Let me tell you, my guest Jill is. I met her while doing typing sessions with a mastermind group, and she immediately thought she was an 8.⁣<br />⁣<br />She’s not an 8.⁣<br />⁣<br />We discovered she’s a Type 1, the Reformer, Improver or the Sheriff. They are the integrity police, prone to black-and-white thinking and not afraid of sharing their opinions.⁣<br />⁣<br />They’re always looking to improve things, and that’s why they make the world a better place—especially when they’re at their most healthy. Listen in as we go into that and more with the lovely Jill.⁣<br />⁣<br />Quotes:⁣<br />2:01 ⁣<br />The reason I am drawn to her is because she has something I don’t and it’s beautiful. ⁣<br />⁣<br />9:08 ⁣<br />Eights are the most mistyped quite honestly because of that intensity. Like just because you're intense doesn’t make you an 8. ⁣<br />⁣<br />14:13 ⁣<br />When I am coming from a not so healthy place or I am in the dark side that intensity is like a wrecking ball. ⁣<br />⁣<br />16:01 Jill⁣<br />I believe we raise a team in any kind of business the way we raise our kids. ⁣<br />⁣<br />26:48 Jill⁣<br />The way I fought for change was aggressive —that doesn’t mean it was bad but it was abrasive (Enneagram One). ⁣<br />⁣<br />29:04 Jill⁣<br />The more confident you become in who you truly are you are able to receive compliments. ⁣<br />⁣<br />33:19 ⁣<br />The beautiful gift of having a 9 wing is the discernment factor like is this really mine to fight and what is the