13. You Can't Hire Out The Love with Dr. Sunny Smith

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER</span></p> <p><strong>Medicine:</strong><span style= "font-weight: 400;"> </span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">The shock, sadness, and action created after a visit to her OB/GYN at the age of 35</span></li> </ul> <p><strong>Marriage:</strong><span style= "font-weight: 400;"> </span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to allow your spouse to grow into the best version of themselves</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why unconditional love is NOT a condition</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">How her traumatic bicycle accident affected her marriage</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why it only takes ONE person to make your relationship better</span></li> </ul> <p><strong>Money:</strong></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why they aggressively paid down their debt and borrowed all the baby things</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">What dipping her toes into real estate looks like</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Her hubby’s thoughts of the $297 boxes she received in the mail</span></li> </ul> <p><strong>Mantra:</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“There will be no bad days.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">TAKE HOME POINTS FROM SUNNY</span></p> <ol> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Recognize what you can control and recognize what you cannot control. Chances are if you are suffering in your relationship, so is your partner...so the question becomes...how do you decrease your own suffering? </span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Am I arguing with reality….Am I agonizing....ruminating or regretting a part of my past or present instead of being grateful for your present  What do I already have that I take for granted? </span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">How am I trying to change my spouse? Maybe nothing major...but something sm