126. Are You Talking Yourself To Death?

<p>Welcome back to Leadership in a Nutshell with Kenny Chapman, Episode 126! Have you ever talked yourself into failure? Most would have denied this but subconsciously most may be running a program that is utilizing words that are talking themselves into it, take time to pause and listen to this episode as this will change your life.</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>Highlights:</strong></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>[00:05 - 06:56] Are You Talking Yourself Into Death?</strong></p> <ul> <li>The key to having a successful relationship is having a value proposition that is specific to the relationship.</li> <li>Lifetime relationships can be transformative but are not always chosen.</li> <li>Transactional relationships are beneficial, but they eventually run their course.</li> <li>A transformational relationship is one where both parties are evolving and sharing what they're learning together.</li> </ul> <p> </p> <p><strong>[06:56 - 13:08] Things to Avoid </strong></p> <ul> <li>People often talk themselves into failure, poverty, and pain.</li> <li>To avoid this, it is important to be aware of the words that you use and to check them against your goals.</li> <li>This can be done by being honest with yourself and checking your thoughts against your goals.</li> </ul> <p> </p> <p><strong>[13:08 - 23:40] Are You Running Around Like A Chicken With Your Head Cut Off?</strong></p> <ul> <li>Be mindful of how busy, important, and crazy things are for you right now and how this can lead to self-talk death.</li> <li>Check-in with yourself regularly to make sure you're not talking yourself to death.</li> <li>Have a plan for how you want your life to be and stick to it.</li> <li>Believe that what you're saying is true and that it's possible to have a great year even if things are tough at first.</li> <li class="ql-indent-1">Heighten your awareness</li> <li class="ql-indent-1">Just listen to what you are saying</li> <li class="ql-indent-1">Release it quickly when you do say something that doesn't resonate with you.</li> </ul> <p> </p> <p><strong>