115: Do THIS Before Dating Again

<p>A question I get a lot is:</p> <p>I got out of the relationship – when do I start dating again? Is it ok to start dating? What do I even do?!</p> <p>Aside from setting and keeping boundaries (check out this series I did on YouTube), is getting very clear on three things.</p> <p>Your wants. Your needs. Your dealbreakers.</p> <p>As survivors, our brain has been altered to the point of not being able to clearly see or even call out red flags that come up. This also leads to the point that we have been taught that these three things make others uncomfortable. And it they make others uncomfortable, then it usually ends in a bad situation for us.</p> <p>Heck, we may even believe that we’re not allowed to have these things.</p> <p>Here’s a truth bomb for you.</p> You’re allowed to have wants, needs and dealbreakers. <p>CONNECT WITH ME</p> <p> </p> <p>karleighlynne.com/shop                                                                             karleighynne.com/115                                                                          instagram.com/karleigh.lynne</p>