050 - Changing your relationship to money with Selina Gray

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Money - we want it, we like it, it makes the world go round. Right?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Well, what can be seen as an incredibly simple thing to survive and thrive, money tends to hold some real deep anchors for most of us.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Personally, I grew up with the idea implanted in my bones that “money doesn't grow on trees” and that having a lot of money is something that happens when you either get famous and ‘succeed’ or become a doctor or lawyer.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Over time I have had to change my idea around money, the stories I hold about money, and how I actually relate to and with money.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What am I talking about? Well, do you save or spend? Do you value it or vanish it? Do you earn it but never seem to have any of it? Do you place your worth in it and only feel like you are valuable or successful when you’ve earnt a lot of it?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Do you even allow yourself to enjoy it?</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Or is most of your life spent earning</span> <em><span style="font-weight: 400;">more</span></em> <span style="font-weight: 400;">money to create</span> <em><span style="font-weight: 400;">more</span></em> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">financial freedom but never seem to feel like there’s ever enough?</span></p> <p> </p> <h3><strong>On this episode:</strong></h3> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This week I have brought on one of the best minds I have seen, heard, and worked with (she is my money coach) when it comes to understanding money and our relationship to it: Selina Gray.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In this episode, we dive into one of the big ways in which the money story plays out for men, and that’s in our need to provide and often specifically provide financial security.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Selina tak