029 - From boy psychology to man psychology with Bryan Reeves

<p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I often get asked the question “How did you get into this work with men?” - with a commonly preconceived idea that it was some kind of obvious rock-bottom or really traumatic event that led to me turning my life around and then getting into the work to help men in the same situation.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">While that might be a sexy story, it’s not the case. What is true is that my story like everyone’s, hold crucial events that are vitally relative to their own life experiences. So, what I did go through eventually led me to get into this work.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">However, I m often interested my self in the journey of other men who end up doing similar work.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Enter this week’s guest, Bryan Reeves, a former Captin in the United States Airforce, now life and relationships coach for men and couples.</span> <em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">That</span></em> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">is a journey I am interested to hear - airforce to coach on love, essentially.</span></p> <p> </p> <h3><strong>In this Episode:</strong></h3> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Byran is a fascinating guy, with a huge heart, an incredibly smart head and a wonderful way with words.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In this episode, we explore some of the language around boys and men and differentiate between some key aspects, such as his quote “Boys save, men serve” which is a fascinating take on mindset and psychology, especially from a former US</span> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">service</span><span style= "font-weight: 400;">man.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We explore some of Bryan’s wonderful insights into moving from being broke and attaching his entire identity to it, to realising that</span> <em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">"My situation is not my identity. My bank account is not my identity. How much money I have is my identity, it's just how much