002 Mark Groves: She’s not responsible for your feelings

<h1>Codependency & Owning your Wounds</h1> <p><span style="font-weight: 400">Welcome to the first guest conversation for the show with a very good friend of mine - Mark Groves, Mr @createthelove.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400">I was thrilled to have Mark on the show to bring the piece that first connected us to this very topic of the Everyday Legend - a piece he wrote about the ‘Evolved Man’, challenging women that say they want this man if they’re actually ready for him.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400">In the show, we explore mark’s story a what he does. We then start talking about relationship dynamics, how our wounding -</span> <i><span style= "font-weight: 400">our shit</span></i> <span style= "font-weight: 400">- plays out and with that we explore codependency.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400">This is a topic Mark has such a great depth of knowledge in, as well as some practised personal experience (me too).</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400">Mark is someone whose content and wisdom I trust wholeheartedly, I have learnt so much from him over the years in the field of relationships and being human, including integrity - something central to this show.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400">A Human Connection Specialist and a great human being, mark brings some brilliant insight and always a light and engaging delivery.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><b>Mike’s main lessons/takeaways:</b></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400">Mark always has so much insight into relationships and what I really liked about this conversation was where he dives into how our wounding - the shit we went through that created most of our beliefs about ourselves and our behaviours in relationships - ends up becoming an intense driver for sexual attraction often getting us deep into a place we don’t want to be in.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400">It’s a counter-intuitive piece that mark brings so much sense to.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 4