I'm Fine

<p>Yes, you are a fiiine lady but, beyond your gorgeous exterior, are you REALLY fine on the inside every time you say you are? How often do you find yourself answering with the typical “I’m fine,” response to the question of “Hey, how are you?” when that really may not be how you’re feeling but you feel expected to answer the question as if it was a passing greeting and not an opportunity to be raw and honest?&nbsp;</p> <p>Because, same.&nbsp;</p> <p>If not for a chance meeting and a moment of pure vulnerability between Sam and a sweet woman enduring what can only be described as “the ultimate worst case of the Mondays” at the gym, Sam may not have had the moment of pause that has led us to today’s conversation. Today we challenge ourselves, and YOU, to give pause, to give an ear behind your greetings, and to connect with people around you wherever you may be.&nbsp;</p> <p>Let’s stop and really listen, lets slow down and take time to hear the hidden pain in the voice of a loved one and let’s give pause to appreciate that maybe someone else’s highlight reel is not their reality- that just maybe things aren’t always as they seem on the surface. How wonderful if we could all remember the complexity of human life- the struggles and the wins- and instead of passing a quick judgement on the superficial we see, we take time to be understanding and give understanding. I pray you find that moment of comfort you may need today- however brief- in the kindness of a stranger or a loved one who chose to give pause, a listening ear, a simple smile and the non judgement we all crave. And perhaps, instead of rushing to the next item on the never ending to-do list of life that has become our normal, today YOU too, give pause and be that comfort for someone else…</p>