Controlling Outcome Doesn’t Work

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We have all been the person who thinks; “if only I apply a little more worry, a little more micro-managing and supervision, then the outcome we want will be inevitable”. I enjoy working with Type A, overachiever women because it reminds me of some of the early mindset work I’ve had to do to get out of my controlling tendencies. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Especially, when we have experienced unexpected, difficult circumstances, we create a thought that gives us the illusion that somehow, we can control every outcome and live a life of zero or little unknowns. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Life is full of surprises, the future is not known and we waste lots of our vital energy in control mode attempting to avoid outcomes we don’t want. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In this episode, I will share with you why we turn to “controlling mode”, how it negatively affects our nervous system, our happiness, and even our relationships, and I will teach you how to change the need to control, for the ability to trust.</span></p> <p>Visit <a href= "https://olgasway.com/controlling-outcome-doesnt-work/" target= "_blank" rel="noopener">olgasway.com </a>for full show notes.  </p> <h1><span style="font-weight: 400; font-size: 18pt;">Important Links: </span></h1> <p><strong>Online courses with Olga:</strong></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><a href= "https://olgasway.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1040634"> <span style="font-weight: 400;">Anxiety Relief</span></a></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><a href= "https://olgasway.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1040654"> <span style="font-weight: 400;">Mindfulness for Everyday</span></a></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><a href= "https://olgasway.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1022918"> <span style="font-weight: 400;">Detox the Mind</span></a></li> </ul> <p><strong>Coaching Opportunities:</strong></p> <ul> <li style="fon