
Mark England
Babylatifah
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In today’s episode, our guest is Mark England, a certified language geek. He holds a master’s degree in education and has been researching, presenting, and coaching in the power of words and stories for more than 14 years. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[3:17]</span> <strong>Why should we listen to you?</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A one-trick pony. One of my business partners joked about that once upon a time. And I took it as a compliment. That’s how our language works for us and how it works against us. I’ve been researching, presenting, and coaching on this one topic for somewhere from full time to overtime the whole time for the past 14 years, and it’s been one of the most enlightening and beneficial studies and practices for myself both personally, professionally that I’ve ever gotten into.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[4:25] When I talk about language, I’m talking about our internal and external dialogue - what we think, what we say and what we write. Most people’s education about language comes down to spelling, grammar, and definitions. Very few people have had any training on how to use their language to stay focused on the things that are important to them.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[6:12] We educate people on how to get their language work for them—another way of saying that is how to use ordinary everyday words to dismantle the victim mentality. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[6:52]</span> <strong>Breathing in mentality into the victim mentality</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The victim mentality is an acquired personality trait where a person tends to regard themselves as the victim of the negative actions of others even in the absence of clear evidence. The victim mentality depends on a habitual thought process and attributions. If there’s a habitual thought process, in context to me is staring at worst-case scenarios over and overplaying the blame game, creati