Get Outside!

<p> </p> <h2>Question of the week by <a href= "https://www.relaxedmale.com/brotherhood/" target="_blank" rel= "noreferrer noopener">The Brotherhood of Men</a></h2> <p> </p> <h3><a href= "https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-become-a-better-father-husband-and-steward-of-the-community-despite-having-a-rough-past"> How do I become a better father, husband, and steward of the community, despite having a rough past?</a></h3> <p>by <a href="https://www.quora.com/profile/Bryan-Whitson-3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Bryan Whitson</a></p> <p>Build your 4 pillars of a good man.</p> <p><strong>Your mind</strong></p> <p>Read learn and grow. Learn about yourself. Read how to communicate with your son and with your spouse. As you read apply the lessons you learn.</p> <p>Write in a journal that way you are leaving a gift for your family. You are also able to see your improvements. Writing does a great job of cleaning your mind and empties your thoughts.</p> <p>with communication though know the secret to all of it is seek first to understand before you are to be understood.</p> <p>A good book to read is The Boy Crisis by Dr Warren Farrell. The first 3/4 of the book is great the last 1/4 gets a little iffy on some of the claims but that could just be my cognitive dissidence in action.</p> <p><strong>your body</strong></p> <p>exercise, build your body. I don’t mean bull up but take care of yourself. This will come in handy when your son and daughter are older. Men also need to control violence in their life, so get into jujitsu or some other physical sport. This teaches you to control and expels the excess energy that will cause you to become listless.</p> <p><strong>your soul</strong> </p> <p>Find your passion work towards it. If you are dreaming of having your own business the do it you don’t have to blow all your savings on getting it started but work towards it. Start that journey.</p> <p>find something that feeds your soul maybe it is volunteering to help the homeless or working for some charity. Maybe it is building