
Desire - When Did We Decide to Settle?
Kefilwe Mabote
الوصف
<p><span data-contrast="auto">When did you decide to settle?</span><span data-ccp-props= "{"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559739":160,"335559740":259}"> </span></p> <p><span data-contrast="auto">What events, beliefs, choices led to you coasting?</span><span data-ccp-props= "{"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559739":160,"335559740":259}"> </span></p> <p><span data-contrast="auto">What changed from those excitable years when the world was full of endless opportunities, when anything was possible?</span><span data-ccp-props= "{"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559739":160,"335559740":259}"> </span></p> <p><span data-contrast="auto">I remember that burst of excitement of possibilities hit me at the age of 16, there was a whole world out there waiting for me... I remember exactly where I was and who I was with when that realisation and excitement hit me. I know then I could have and do anything...</span><span data-ccp-props= "{"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559739":160,"335559740":259}"> </span></p> <p><span data-contrast="auto">This excitement carried through into my marriage, and I was well into my mid-thirties before life got serious and I felt it was time to grow up. Trying to have a baby was a tough time for us, we had a quite a few miscarriages and when it finally happened it was an incredible time, but it changed everything; my belief system of growing up stopped me thinking in a limitless way and as a result I coasted and settled into a routine that looking back didn’t serve me or those around me. </span><span data-ccp-props= "{"201341983":0,"335551550":1,"335551620":1,"335559739":160,"335559740":259}"> </span></p> <p><span data-contrast="auto">In this episode I talk about why you might find yourself settling, and why doing so can stifle your desire for more and lower your expectations. I’ll get you thinking about your own life goals, and why it’s so important to always keep yourself aligned to your desires.</span><span data-ccp-props= "{"201341983":0,"33